Momwe Kukumbukira, Kuphunzira, ndi Kuzindikira Kukukhudzireni Chizoloŵezi Chanu Chogula
Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo chifukwa chake mumagula zinthu zomwe mumachita? Ngakhale ndi zofunikira zofunika, pali chifukwa chomwe mumasankhira zinthu zina kuposa zina. Tsopano, n'zosavuta kuganiza kuti mtengo ndi khalidwe ndizo zokha zomwe zimabwera pano.
Komabe, mungadabwe kupeza kuti pali zisonkhezero zapakati pa ntchito. Makamaka, kukumbukira kwanu, kuzindikira kwanu, ndi kuphunzira kwanu ndizomwe zimatsimikizira zomwe mumagula nthawi iliyonse. Tiyeni tiwone momwe izi zimagwirira ntchito:
Nostalgia ndi Zokhudza Kugula Kwanu
Kodi mwadutsa pogulitsa zovala posachedwa ndikutengapo gawo limodzi? Izi mwina ndichifukwa choti zovala zambiri zomwe zimagulitsidwa zimakumbutsa kwambiri za 80s ndi 90s. Poganizira kuti izi zinali zaka khumi kapena ziwiri zapitazo, zitha kuwoneka zosamveka kuti masitayelo awa akubwereranso.
Chabwino, si zovala zokha zomwe zikuphatikiza njira iyi. Mutha kupeza masewera apakanema, malo odyera, zinthu zokongola, komanso makanema apa TV onse akufotokozeranso kuphulika kwakale. Ndiye, chifukwa chiyani kwenikweni opanga ndi mabungwe otsatsa akugwira ntchito molimbika kuti akubwezereni nthawi?
Chabwino, yankho losavuta ndilotero nostalgia amagulitsa. Kafukufuku wambiri wasonyeza kuti anthu amatha kugula chinthu ngati chimayambitsa kukumbukira zinthu zina zokhudzana ndi ubwana wawo. Izi, nazonso, zili ndi zifukwa zake - anthu ambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro abwino okha. Chifukwa chake, mutha kuyang'ana zakale mwachikondi ndikukumbukira nthawi zabwino.
Osanenapo, mphuno nthawi zambiri imakumbutsa anthu za nthawi zosavuta, makamaka zaka zomwe mudakhala ndi maudindo ochepa oti muzidandaula nazo. Kotero, pogula t-shirt ya mpesa kapena kulowetsa zokoma kuchokera m'mbuyomu, mukudzilola kuti mutenge nthawi yochepa kuchokera pakalipano.
Zochitika ndi Momwe Zimapangira Zogula Zamtsogolo
Mosiyana pang'ono, tiyeni tipite ku zochitika. Kodi izi zimakhudza bwanji ngati mungagule kapena ayi mtsogolomo? Ngati mulibe chidziwitso cham'mbuyo chokhudza chinthu china kapena chinthu china, muyenera kupeza chithandizo choyamba. Izi zitha kukhala mu mawonekedwe a kugula kalozera kapena kuwerenga ndemanga pa intaneti.
Mukagula chinthucho, mutha kusungitsa zomwe mwakumana nazo kuti muwone ngati izi ndi zomwe mupezanso. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munagula chinthu china n’kuona kuti n’chabwino, n’kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi mtengo wake, ndipo chinali chosangalatsa, mudzafuna kuchigulanso. Izi ndi zomwe zimadziwika kuti kuphunzira.
Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, si inu nthawi zonse amene mumayambitsa maphunzirowa. Pali nthawi zina pomwe ogulitsa ndi ogulitsa amakulimbikitsani kuti mupite. Izi ndizofala amatchedwa kuumba. Imodzi mwa njira zosavuta zomwe ogulitsa amachitira izi ndikukupatsani zitsanzo za chinthu chomwe simunayesepo m'mbuyomu.
Pambuyo pa gawoli, akhoza kukulimbikitsani kuti mugule malonda awo pokupatsani chilolezo. Mwachitsanzo, wogulitsa angakupatseni kuponi kapena kuchotsera pogula koyamba ndi kachiwiri. Ndi pambuyo pake pakugula komwe mudzayamba kulipira mtengo wathunthu. Pambuyo pa izi, mutha kuonedwa ngati kasitomala wokhulupirika.
Kuwona ndi Kugula
Zinganenedwe kuti kuzindikira kumakhala kwamphamvu kuposa zenizeni. Pakhala pali zochitika zambiri pamene anthu akwanitsa kudzitsimikizira okha ndi ena za zinthu zosaneneka, chifukwa chakuti amakhulupirira kuti nzoona. Momwemonso, kukopa malingaliro anu kungapangitse zotsatira zofanana.
Pankhani yogula, zikhoza kutsutsidwa kuti panthawi iliyonse, mukuchita ndi mitundu iwiri ya malingaliro. Zoyamba ndi zikhulupiliro zomwe mwadzipangira nokha. Chachiwiri ndi zomwe makampani otsatsa malonda ndi malingaliro otchuka apanga.
Malingaliro awiriwa amatha kugwira ntchito paubongo wanu paokha kapena palimodzi. Ziribe kanthu, mungakhale otsimikiza kuti pamapeto pake adzasankha zomwe mumagula komanso ndalama zomwe mudzawononge.
Malingaliro Aumwini
Choyamba, tiyeni tione zimene maganizo anu angachite. Ntchito zonse pano zimachitidwa ndi ubongo wanu. Makamaka, nucleus accumbens, mesial prefrontal cortex, ndi insula bwerani mumasewera. Izi ndi zigawo zomwe zimakhudzidwa pakuwunika zinthu ndikuwunika ngati mtengo wawo ndi wokwanira.
Chochititsa chidwi ndi chakuti ngakhale kuti ubongo wanu umawerengera kuti muwone ngati chinthucho chili choyenera mtengo wake, chisankho chomaliza chimachokera pamalingaliro. Onani, pali chifukwa chomwe anthu ambiri amasangalalira atagula zinthu. Amatha kudzitsimikizira okha kuti adapeza bwino ndipo adatha kusunga ndalama.
Tsopano, monga mukudziwira, izi sizowona nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina, mumangowona kuti china chake ndi chamtengo wapatali ngakhale sizili choncho. Komabe, izi siziri zofunikira - m'malo mowona momwe zinthu zilili, malingaliro anu ndi omwe ali ofunikira kwambiri.
Chilimbikitso chakunja
Zomwe zatsala kuti mukambirane ndi momwe ena angakhudzire malingaliro anu kuti khalidwe lanu logula likhudzidwenso. Pali njira zambiri zomwe anthu amaganizira kuti otsatsa ndi ogulitsa amatha kusokoneza malingaliro kapena malingaliro anu. Zithunzi zokopa, mauthenga amphamvu, ndi malingaliro osangalatsa amatha kuumba momwe mumawonera kampani inayake.
Ngakhale kuti zonsezi n’zosakayikitsa, zimene anthu ambiri sadziwa n’zakuti pali zina zimene zikugwira ntchito. Zomwe ambiri mwamakampaniwa akuyesera kuchita ndi kuti ndikudziweni ndi logo, mtundu, ndi zinthu zawo. Ndi chibadwa cha munthu kukopeka ndi zinthu zimene timazidziwa bwino. Timamva ngati tingakhulupirire zimene timadziwa.
Chifukwa chake, chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe ogulitsa amawonekera pafupipafupi pazotsatsa zapaintaneti, zikwangwani, ndi malonda a pa TV ndichifukwa akufuna kuti muwazindikire. Mwanjira iyi, nthawi ina mukafuna kugula, pali mwayi woti mupite ndi chinthu chomwe chakopa chidwi chanu.
Monga mukuonera, pali zambiri chifukwa chake mumagula zinthu zomwe mumachita. Zakale zanu, zomwe mwakumana nazo, komanso zikhulupiriro zanu zonse zimakumana kuti zitsimikizire mtundu ndi chinthu chomwe mudzasankhe.