Indlela yokukhathalela umntu onesifo sengqondo esiyingozi

Ifoto esuka Marie Curie

Njengomntu okhathalela umntu omthandayo onesifo sengqondo esiyingozi, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukubakhathalela kunokuba ngumngeni. Njengoko isigulo siya siba mandundu, uya kubandakanyeka ngakumbi ekusingatheni imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Kodwa ngomonde kunye neengcebiso ezimbalwa, unokunceda izigulane ze-dementia zithathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ke, cinga ngokuthatha amanye amacebiso kweli nqaku ukukunceda ukhathalele lowo umthandayo. 

I-dementia sisifo, esihlala sihlala sihlala sihleli okanye siqhubela phambili ngokwemo, esibangela ukwehla komsebenzi wokuqonda (oko kukuthi, amandla okucubungula ingcinga) kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuba unokukulindela kwiziphumo eziqhelekileyo zokuguga kwebhayoloji. Inkumbulo, ukuqiqa, ulwalathiso, ukuqonda, ukubala, ubuchule bokufunda, ulwimi nokugweba zezona zichaphazeleka kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, imeko yengqondo yomguli wakho ayichaphazeleki. 

Ukongeza, iimvakalelo zabo, ulawulo lweemvakalelo, ukuziphatha, okanye utshintsho olukhuthazayo luhlala lwandulela kwaye lukhapha ukuwohloka kwentsebenzo yabo yengqondo. Kukho izigaba ezahlukeneyo zesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, kodwa xa uthe waqaphela ukuba umntu omthandayo uqala ukulibala ulwazi olusisiseko olufana negama lakhe, loluphi usuku lweveki, yintoni ababenayo ngesidlo sakusasa, kunye nabanye, kusenokuba lixesha lokuba bafumane. uphumile. Kwaye ukuba awunalo isicwangciso se-inshorensi esigubungela isigulo esinjalo, unokujonga ezinye Iinketho zokuqinisekisa kwi-inshurensi yezempilo ukwenzela bona. 

Iingcebiso zokunceda ukukhathalela umntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo

• Vula ukunxibelelana nokusebenzisana ngeendlela ezintsha abazenzayo 

Iqhelekile into yokuba abaguli abanesifo sengqondo esiyingozi bangakwazi ukunxibelelana nokuqonda njengoko imeko yabo isiba mandundu, ngoko ke ukubanyamekela kufuna unxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Unokusebenzisana kakuhle nabo ukuba ukulungele ukubamkela njengoko benjalo ngoku. Unxibelelwano olululo lunokukunceda ekujongeni indlela yokusabela ngokufanelekileyo kwiimeko ezinzima eziya kuvela ngokungathandabuzekiyo, njengaxa zihlala zibuza umbuzo ofanayo, zilibale into ebalulekileyo, okanye zithathe amanyathelo. 

Xa uthetha nabantu abadala abanesifo sengqondo esiyingozi, gcina unxibelelwano lwamehlo kwaye uzame kangangoko ukuzibandakanya kwincoko abanayo nawe. Thetha ngokuthambileyo nangobubele kubo, zama ukungabenzi bazive buhlungu ngokulibala izinto, yaye ngamaxesha onke ubancede bakhumbule inkcazelo ekunzima ukuyikhumbula. 

• Kuphephe ukucinezeleka, ukucaphukisa, kunye nokukhathaza lowo umthandayo. 

I-dementia ihlala yenza ukuphatha uxinzelelo kunye nokubhideka ngamanye amaxesha kube nzima kakhulu. Xa izinto ezizenzeke lula zisiba ngumngeni, umntu onesifo sengqondo esiyingozi unokucaphuka. Ke ngoko, kunyanzelekile ukuba ukuphephe ukubeka umntu omthandayo kwiimeko ezikhokelela kungquzulwano okanye utshintsho olungeyomfuneko. 

Ukuze ugweme uxinzelelo kunye neengxabano ezingeyomfuneko, zama ukuseka inkqubo yemihla ngemihla. Kwakhona, kuphephe ukubangxamela xa besenza imisebenzi ethile, banike ukhetho abanokuthi bakhethe kulo, soloko umamela into abayifunayo, kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba benze umthambo kwaye benze imisetyenzana eyonwabisayo ukuze bahlale bonwabile kwaye bexakekile. 

• Yiba bhetyebhetye 

Abantu abadala abadala abanesifo sengqondo esiyingozi ngokuthe ngcembe baya kuxhomekeka ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ukunciphisa ukudandatheka, yiba bhetyebhetye kwaye uguqule inkqubo yakho kunye nokulindela njengoko kufuneka. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu omthandayo ufuna ukunxiba into efanayo yonke imihla, cinga ngokuthenga iimpahla ezimbalwa ezifanayo. Kwakhona, ukuba ukuhlamba kuhlangatyezwana nokuxhathisa, cinga ukwenza oko ngaphantsi rhoqo.

• Badale indawo ekhuselekileyo. 

Ukuba uyamkhathalela umntu omthandayo endlwini yakho, gcina indawo abakuyo ikhuselekile kwaye ingenangozi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Qinisekisa ukuba akukho zinto eziyingozi zilele ngeenxa zonke, qiniseka ukuba ubeka izitshixo kwiikhabhinethi kunye neengcango, ugcine umgangatho ucocekile, kwaye ufake i-grabs kwizitepsi kunye neendawo ezibalulekileyo. 

• Babonise uthando nomsa. 

Isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo sisigaba esilucelomngeni kwisigaba esidala sobomi, ngoko ke qinisekisa ukuba umntu owalupheleyo omkhathaleleyo uziva ethandwa kwaye ekhathalelwe njengoko behamba kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo esi sigulo. Bonisa inkxaso kunye nothando kubo, kwaye ubazise ukuba benza kakuhle. Ukukhuthaza kuhamba indlela ende ekudaleni imvakalelo yokhuseleko kunye nokuzaliseka njengoko bejonga izinto ezingaziwayo ezinxulumene nesigulo.